Narcissists are masters of seduction. Even the most useless narcissist , is capable of seducing the most , it is a God gift to them .
The relationship with a narcissist is super intense.
Narcissists initially pretend to be some-one who they are not. They are skillful ILLUSIONIST.
They LURE their victims into relationship with excitement of fun and exiting experiences, eternal love and unforgettable travels.
Narcissist initially uses charm, lies, mirrors, fakes affection and has LOTS of sex with you.
They literally sweep their victims off their feet, so they lose all their judgement and their logical sense.
It feels as though you've found your "SOUL MATE ". All of this was the Narcissist's plan, you were targeted to be brought into this relationship and move VERY quickly into it being serious with them.
Very soon the Narcissist will become the most important person in the victim's life. Victims get used to this constant attention and flattery and mistake it for intense interest and devotion on the part of the Narcissist.
The narcissist transforms into the "perfect person". Once they can lure the victim into falling in love with them the con games really begin.
This stage is very important to the Narcissist because it determines how many boundaries you will allow for them to cross, and gives them an idea of how much abuse you will inevitably accept.
This stage is also most dangerous, because tragically it establishes the basis for the trauma bond with the narcissist for the unsuspecting victim of the narcissistic TRAP .
Multiple victims of narcissistic abuse report having difficulty in finding new love, because normal, kind and empathic individuals seem so dull and boring after the drama filled relationship with their ex narc.
Often times the victim doesn't see the lying, cheating or stealing right away, and when they do the Narcissist manipulates the situation to make it the victim's fault.
If you are reading this and experience the similar pattern, please remember sometimes we tolerate the destructive patterns of narcissist , because we are afraid to lose them, but actually you will lose nothing but your own illusions.
The person you fell in love with literally—literally—does not exist.
Sometimes in an attempt to not to lose them we do not understand that tolerating them will cause us to lose OURSELF !
Conscious Soul
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